Q: A Baptist friend asked me, “Why do we call priests ‘Father’ when Jesus told us not to call anyone on earth ‘father?'” How would you answer this question?
This question refers to Jesus’s teaching found in the Gospel
of St. Matthew, when He said, “Do not call anyone on earth your father. Only
One is your Father, the One in heaven” (Mt 23:9). Taken literally, we would
have to wonder why we do use this title “Father” when Jesus seems to forbid it.
First, we must remember the context of the passage. Jesus is addressing the
hypocrisy of the scribes and the Pharisees — the learned religious leaders of
Judaism. Our Lord castigates them for not providing a good example; for
creating onerous spiritual burdens for others with their various rules and
regulations; for being haughty in exercising their office; and for promoting
themselves by looking for places of honor, seeking marks of respect and wearing
ostentatious symbols. Basically, the scribes and the Pharisees had forgotten
that they were called to serve the Lord and those entrusted to their care with
humility and a generous spirit.
Given that context, Jesus says not to call anyone on earth
by the title “Rabbi,” “Father,” or “teacher,” in the sense of arrogating to
oneself an authority which rests with God and of forgetting the responsibility
of the title. No one must ever take the place, or usurp the privileges and
respect that belongs to the heavenly Father. As Jesus said, only the heavenly
Father is the true Father, and only the Messiah is the true teacher and rabbi.
In a similar vein, Jesus said, “Whoever loves father or mother, son or
daughter, more than Me is not worthy of Me” (Mt 10:37). Because of the
authority of the heavenly Father and the respect due to Him, Jesus freely
referred to His heavenly Father as “Father,” and taught us to pray the “Our
Father” (Mt 6:9-13).
Moreover, our Lord Himself used the title “father” for
several characters in His parables: In the parable of the rich man and the
beggar, Lazarus, the rich man, cries out from the depths of Hell, “Father
Abraham, have pity on me,” and the usage of the title “father” occurs three
times (cf. Lk 16:19-31). One has to wonder: if Jesus prohibited the use of the
title “father,” why does He instruct the people with a parable in which the
characters use the title? To do so seems to be contradictory and actually
misleading to the audience. The same is true in the parable of the Prodigal
Son: The young prodigal son, upon his return, says, “Father, I have sinned
against God and against you” (cf. Lk 15:11-32). Given the way our Lord used the
title “father” in so many teachings, including when repeating the fourth
commandment, our Lord did not intend to prohibit calling a father by the title
“father”; rather, He prohibited misusing the title.
We do use these titles in our common parlance: We call those
who instruct us and others “teacher”; our male parent, “father”; and Jewish
religious leaders, “rabbi.” Especially in a religious sense, those who serve
the Lord and represent His authority, as a teacher, parent and especially a
priest, must be mindful of exercising it diligently, humbly and courageously.
To use this authority for self-aggrandizement is pure hypocrisy. Jesus said at
the end of this passage, “Whoever exalts himself shall be humbled, but whoever
humbles himself shall be exalted.”
Since the earliest times of our Church, we have used the
title “Father” for religious leaders. Bishops, who are the shepherds of the
local Church community and the authentic teachers of the faith, were given the
title “Father.” Consequently, St. Peter may well have been addressed as “Father
Peter,” in that sense of spiritual father. The likelihood of this address is
supported by St. Paul who identifies himself as a spiritual father. In writing
to the Corinthians, he said, “I am writing you in this way not to shame you but
to admonish you as my beloved children. Granted you have ten thousand guardians
in Christ, you have only one father. It was I who begot you in Christ Jesus
through my preaching of the Gospel. I beg you, then, be imitators of me. This
is why I have sent you Timothy, my beloved and faithful son in the Lord” (1 Cor
4:14-17).
Until about the year 400, a bishop was called “father”
(“papa”); this title was then restricted solely to addressing the Bishop of
Rome, the successor of St. Peter, and in English was rendered “pope.” In an
early form of his rule, St. Benedict (d. c. 547) designated the title to
spiritual confessors, since they were the guardians of souls. Moreover, the
word “abbot,” denoting the leader in faith of the monastic community, is
derived from the word abba, the Aramaic Hebrew word father, but in the
very familiar sense of “daddy.” Later, in the Middle Ages, the term “father”
was used to address the mendicant friars — like the Franciscans and Dominicans
— since by their preaching, teaching and charitable works they cared for the
spiritual and physical needs of all of God’s children. In more modern times,
the heads of male religious communities or even those who participate in
ecumenical councils, such as Vatican II, are given the title “father.” In the
English-speaking world, addressing all priests as “Father” has become
customary.
On a more personal note, the title for me is very humbling.
As a priest, “Father” reminds me that I am entrusted with a grave
responsibility by our Lord — His faithful people. Just as a father must
nourish, instruct, challenge, correct, forgive, listen and sustain his
children, so must a priest do so for his spiritual children. The priest must
especially meet the spiritual needs of those entrusted to his care, providing
them with the nourishment of our Lord through the sacraments. He must preach
the Gospel with fervor and conviction in accord with the mind of the Church,
challenging all to continue on that path of conversion which leads to holiness.
He must correct those who have erred, but with mercy and compassion. In the
same spirit as the father with his prodigal son, the priest must reconcile
sinners who have gone astray but seek a way back to God. As a father listens to
his child, so must a priest listen to his spiritual children, providing counsel
and consolation. A priest must also be mindful of the “physical” needs of his
flock — food, housing, clothing and education.
While priests may be celibate, the words of our Lord to His
Apostles ring true: “I give you my word, there is not one who has given up
home, brothers or sisters, mother or father, children or property, for me and
for the Gospel who will not receive in this present age a hundred times as many
homes, brothers and sisters, mothers, children and property — and persecution
besides — and in the age to come, everlasting life” (Mk 10:29-30). Actually
celibacy frees a priest to be a generous father for his spiritual children. All
of us must pray for our priests, especially those who serve in our own parishes
and those newly ordained for our diocese, that by God’s grace they may strive
to fulfill the responsibility of being “Father.”
*Contributed: FR. William Saunders and editor’s note: Article courtesy of
the Arlington Catholic Herald.
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